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Unraveling How To Find Happiness Again.

Jacob Ruhl
5 min readAug 17, 2023

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In a world where happiness is often touted as the ultimate goal, it’s ironic how the quest for this elusive emotion can feel like grasping at shadows. The pursuit of happiness is a universal human endeavor, but the complexities that shroud it make it a journey fraught with challenges. This comprehensive exploration delves into the intricate layers that contribute to the difficulty of achieving and maintaining happiness in today’s world.

The Nature of Hedonic Adaptation

Human psychology exhibits a fascinating phenomenon known as hedonic adaptation, where in individuals rapidly adjust to changes in their circumstances, regardless of whether those changes are positive or negative. This phenomenon lies at the heart of the difficulty in sustaining happiness. While the initial rush of joy from achieving a goal or acquiring something new is undeniable, this feeling often wanes as the novelty diminishes. This inherent tendency to normalize positive experiences means that individuals are constantly seeking the next source of happiness, perpetuating a cycle of achievement and discontent.

The Comparison Conundrum

In the age of social media and interconnectedness, the comparison conundrum has intensified. Platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter offer glimpses into curated versions of people’s lives…

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Jacob Ruhl
Jacob Ruhl

Written by Jacob Ruhl

As a 23-year-old entrepreneur, I thrive on creativity and love exploring and sharing innovative ideas and unique interests with those around me.

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